In this life, many of us have been gifted the freedom to choose our paths and how we will navigate them.
While we may be headed in a singular direction, it’s easy to be lured by opportunities or requests along the way that intrigue or excite us. Yet, we must be intentional about prioritizing our purpose or life’s calling, rather than choosing good over great – or in other words, choosing the icing rather than the cake itself.
On some days, the icing may be all we crave. However, the icing isn’t the substance; it’s usually a finishing touch. Given a choice, I’d say “take the cake.”
The cake is the lead, while the icing is a supporting actor. When you choose the cake, you can add as much or as little icing as you want or need.
So whatever decisions you face this week – personal or professional; individual or group-driven; significant or simple – pause and do your personal icing/cake analysis. Consider whether you’re asking the right questions to make the best and wisest decision, and whether you are willing to choose substance over style.
Some choices may land you both substance and style – cake WITH icing. But for enduring blessings and relevance, always start with the cake!
Still Unfolding with Stacy Hawkins Adams 